Sunday, September 5, 2010

Long Distance Relationship! How do you do it?

As most of you must have known by now, that am with the same chick for over six years and it’s been almost two years we are having this long distance relationship. To be honest ‘LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS SUCKS’. Seriously it sucks.

I too get lots of stupid questions from my buddies like ‘‘Dude how can you be with the same chick for 6 year’, ‘Dude how do you manage your long distance relationship’, ‘Dude are your serious about this girl’? Well, if am not serious to my girl why would I spend half of my salary on my phone and why would I be with the same girl for over 6 years. Coming to how can you be with the same chick for 6 year, well, I love her, that’s why am with the same girl for some 6 year. Coming to ‘how do you manage your long distance relationship’, well it’s not that easy. Long term relationship sucks and to keep it going you need a phone with a really amazing long distance call plan, plus tons of porno movies… Just kidding..

Honestly guys, it’s really tough to maintain a healthy long distance relationship. from my almost two years experience I have learned that the only way to maintain such a relationship is unconditional trust and love. Plus at least three phone calls in a day. One right after you wake up, one midday call and one just before you hit the sack and don’t forget to say the three magic words (I Love You). Why the three magic words? To let her known that you really are sleeping alone, you too can tell her to do the same, just to make sure.

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18 comments:

  1. The fact that you're willing to deal with the cons to maintain a loving relationship says a great deal, A.K. That's awesome!

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  2. I have done this long relationship bit too - and have been quite successful at it, I must boast!

    Love, faith and mutual respect sees us thru!

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  3. Yeah! Long Distance relationships are hard to maintain.. But then, it has its own charm.. When you meet after long time, you have more excitement to meet your love.. Be it a long distance or the same city, LOVE & TRUST is the essential part of any relationship.. So, keep going Dude. 6 years with the same gal shows that you guys really love each other. Hopping from one relationship to another has no meaning. So, keep the gal. May God Bless u both..

    Take Care,
    Ann

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  4. Six year...never thought you could be so serious about your relationship...lolz...

    The Long distance and the Long Tenure really shows how much you both are in Love with each Other...

    Kudos to both of You...^_^

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  5. Wow! Dude seriously, how do you do it. I tried it once and it lasted for 5 months. Maybe the trick lies with porno movies. LOL

    THe site is amazing.. Never knew that the Indian Metal Scene was this alive.

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  6. 6 years! Way to go dude.... I like the phone idea. The Underground, sounds cool. let me check it our..

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  7. Argh it really sucks. I just hate it hate it hate it. And if this guy wouldn't have been as wonderful as he really is, I would've bolted right out.

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  8. I also feel the same dude it doesn't get any easier... I stay positive and dedicated because love conquers all and i am very much in love...

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  9. oh yay, i'm in the same boat, 6 years here too :)

    unconditional CRAZY AMOUNT OF LOVE... constant reassurances.. yeah the "i love yous" are very very important. not LOVE YOUS. "I LOVE YOU" hehe

    3 phone calls are good..specially before sleeping..

    WEBCAM is a blessing for couples in a long distance relationship.. its so good to see each other.. so so good.

    i think ldr makes one very strong and understand the real meaning of love. TRUST. COMMUNICATION. EXPRESSING LOVE. PATIENCE. SACRIFICES.

    all these things help a lot once people start living together.

    God bless you guys :)

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  10. My boyfriend and I are hitting 6 years in February. I don't know how I'd ever manage a long distance relationship, but I wish you two the best. :)

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  11. @Crazy Diamond Webcams.... Sounds interesting... Let me try! LOL!

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  12. @Jasmine thanks!

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  13. Long distance is not that difficult to manage, i'm going through one. All you need is a PC and an internet connection and you stay connected Thanx to web chatting :)

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  14. @Readme.. That's what i've been think that for a long time....

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  15. A long distance relationship with the same girl for 6 years: that's quite awesome and amazing.

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  16. @Cocaine Princess.. :)

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  18. I am probably about to be away from my boyfriend too next year, and that would be the first time!

    Thanks a lot for your comments!! I wouldn't have discovered your blog otherwise ;)

    Lucinda

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